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I have been wanting to start these posts for a while now, and couldn't think of a better time to do so then now. Having majored in Psychology and currently pursuing my doctorate in Marital and Family therapy, I thought I would share my thoughts and opinions on what is going on inside the brains of the Dolphin's players and personnel. You might question why I would go out of my way to write something while there are already great contributors to this site who may already discuss the cognitive process behind this team. Having been consciously a fan since I was 7 (I'm now 22), I have always been analytical towards this team, focusing more on what is going on mentally rather than physically. I pay attention to the numbers, economics, politics, and drama just as much as the rest of you, yet I find myself more interested inn what the hell is going on in the heads of our favorite players and coaches throughout the year. Please note that my views are clear assumptions based off of my academic studies and personal opinion. I would appreciate any feedback on my posts and if you flat out disagree with my views, don't hold back from saying so. Part of my interest in writing this bi -weekly posts is to gain a better understanding of what my fellow Dolphin fans think is going on in the team's head. With that I will start my first assessment with none other than the hiring of Joe Philbin.

Joe Philbin was chosen for his potential to unite this team

I'm not going to go into any numbers or argue whether Philbin/Mccoy had the better/ worse players to work with. I'm not going to tell you why/ how Philbin has the better offensive mind or strategy, simply because I don't think you can determine that from two coaches who have yet to serve as the leader of a team. However, I will tell you why I feel Philbin has the best chance to unite the team and succeed. In my graduate studies, I'm focusing on grief and trauma, and while I have dealt with tough losses in my life, very few of us can honestly know the amount of grief Philbin is dealing with after his son's tragic and traumatic death. If you are aware with the 5 stages of the grieving process, you might agree with me that he is already at the last stage, "Acceptance". Many of you may be worried Philbin isn't emotionally stable to handle this job and I'm with you there. How can someone who just lost their son in a horrible way, change his job, residency, and most of all life, right after the death of his son? Surely this was in the minds of Ross and Ireland, and I have no doubt that it had to be assured from Philbin that he was emotionally stable to do the job. The billionaire Ross has surely dealt with employees who were grieving the loss of a loved one and he is too successful of a businessman to give a job to someone who isn't ready or capable of doing it. The players will immediately gain respect for Philbin and will most likely put in an extra effort to succeed and make their coach proud. Is this to say that other coaches don't have inspirational or emotional reasons for their players to do well? NO. But usually as a professional, you keep your stress, emotions and family problems to yourself and your players play for money, fame, or their own personal reasons. Yet Philbin's tragedy became public and the Dolphins organization will now do everything in their power to show that even people who have gone through tragic events like Philbin can come out of it victorious. Here is to a fresh start to this year, to us fans, and of course our new head coach Mr. Joe Philbin, who should have much success and happiness for years to come.

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I don't think you can generalize player's reactions since everyone is different.

It’ll also be several months before Philbin actually starts coaching. He should be recovered enough from the tragedy and many fans and players will barely remember the incident.

- Attempting to debate with a person who has abandoned reason is like giving medicine to the dead.
- Defeat isn't bitter if you don't swallow it.

Contributing Writer to the The Phinsider

by Finhead83 on Jan 21, 2012 1:45 AM EST reply actions  

I disagree with your last point.

While I don’t think a coach should be focused on for the matters in his past, you know the media will be mentioning the incident throughout the year and seeing how Philbin has dealt with it.

I went to Ricky Williams high school!

by Dolphinsfreak34 on Jan 21, 2012 2:18 AM EST up reply actions  

I just don't think that'll happen.

There will be other stories happening by then. They move with what the new news is.

- Attempting to debate with a person who has abandoned reason is like giving medicine to the dead.
- Defeat isn't bitter if you don't swallow it.

Contributing Writer to the The Phinsider

by Finhead83 on Jan 21, 2012 10:22 AM EST up reply actions  

I agree there will be other stories

But if Philbin leads the Dolphins to the playoffs, it’s almost a certainty it will be mentioned as part of his determination and success.

I went to Ricky Williams high school!

by Dolphinsfreak34 on Jan 21, 2012 1:47 PM EST up reply actions  

If that is the case, it very well could happen.

But Philbin would be a year removed from the tragedy. I just don’t his son passing will end up being that much of a hinderance. He won’t start coaching players until May (5 months later), coach real games until September (9 months later), and the playoffs would be a full year after the tragedy.

- Attempting to debate with a person who has abandoned reason is like giving medicine to the dead.
- Defeat isn't bitter if you don't swallow it.

Contributing Writer to the The Phinsider

by Finhead83 on Jan 21, 2012 1:53 PM EST up reply actions  

You're right

My point is that the media will make the tragedy into the driving force and factor of Philbin’s success than it really is.

I went to Ricky Williams high school!

by Dolphinsfreak34 on Jan 21, 2012 5:07 PM EST up reply actions  

People handle grief differently.

I don’t know if you can put Philbin or anyone into a box without knowing his backround a little more than a Wiki profile. If he is highly compartmentalized I wouldn’t worry so much about him. The outside stressors are what I would worry about. How his wife deals with the loss. How his kids adjust to the loss and move. He has 5 other children who range in age from 10-23 I believe.

How the players adjust will depend on how he carries himself. Seeing someone perserver through tragedy can be a unifying force. So I do see your point. Lot of variables. I wish Coach Philbin the best. I think a lot of us are hoping he is the answer.

The truth is incontrovertible. Malice may attack it, ignorance may deride it, but in the end, there it is.
Winston Churchill

by FinFanFromCA on Jan 21, 2012 2:16 AM EST reply actions  

I think we will learn a little about coach Philbin tomorrow

It will be the first time he has been in front of cameras since the incident, and I’m sure one of the reporters (my money is on Mondo) will ask him about how he can deal with tragedy and still stay focused on football.

I too am a little worried that he may be getting in over his head with such a short period after his lost, but from what I have read and seen in previous interviews Philbin comes off as a quiet yet strong leader who can & will demand respect from his players and staff.

by kermit the frogger29 on Jan 21, 2012 2:35 AM EST reply actions  

All I can hope is that Ross and Ireland

give him as much time to deal with his son’s loss as he needs.

I never got a prize for doing what was expected of me.

by Tunaflipper on Jan 21, 2012 6:36 AM EST reply actions  

Everyone Is Different

We don’t know what kind of person Coach Philbin is. I know people who love their family deeply but they love their job more. This is not to say this is how Coach Philbin is, but consider they type of person his son became. It is possible that Coach Philbin had already cut ties with his son. Of course Coach Philbin is upset about his loss, but maybe he and his family see this as the perfect opportunity to re-locate and get a fresh start. Maybe staying in Green Bay would have been more difficult than moving on. This could be the biggest part of his healing process for his family and him.

The point is we just don’t know. So to speculate that he is not ready to take on this opportunity is not fair to him. Give the guy the benefit of the doubt and lets stick behind a coach for once instead of setting them up for failure.

by Fins-Fan on Jan 21, 2012 11:03 AM EST reply actions  

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